Love and relationships

Why is it difficult to build relationships, rules for building a dialogue
Almost every day we run the risk of finding ourselves in a situation where we cannot really hear and understand our interlocutor, but he cannot hear and understand us. But…

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Love and family
Love is currently one of the most common reasons for creating a family, but not the only one. Families are created not only for love. There are completely random reasons…

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What is love
Love is an interested, caring and attentive attitude towards that and for the sake of the fact that we love or whom we love. You need to talk about love…

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Why is it difficult to build relationships, rules for building a dialogue

Almost every day we run the risk of finding ourselves in a situation where we cannot really hear and understand our interlocutor, but he cannot hear and understand us. But what if this particular person was our fate? Simple rules of dialogue will help you not to lose it.

Every day and every hour, on weekends and weekdays, regardless of the weather, political situation and economic situation in the world, people, men and women meet and part, bringing and leaving in each other’s memory and souls either a wonderful feeling of unearthly magical joy, or a bleeding wound of doom and misery. Someone luckier – he becomes happy, someone less. But the question of the emergence, development, extinction and termination of relations between a man and a woman leads us to the question of the relationship of a person with a person without determining and highlighting his gender. Continue reading

4 exercises to get closer

We read a smart book, went to a seminar, learned something new – and I want to share this with a partner. And he strains and asks him not to load, and he considers our passion for development a sweet weakness with which he is forced to put up. Vollens-nollens, which is translated from Latin means willy-nilly. Do you want to surprise him and be surprised yourself? It’s cool, simple, nice, nothing needs to be done … And the couple’s relations are “getting better” in some mystical way.

First, it’s worth recalling a well-known thing: each person is a special “set” of beliefs, beliefs, experience, knowledge, aspirations, qualities, values, meanings and much more. One likes and suits meditation and daily diary, and the other half an hour of active training or, conversely, a good night’s sleep. But we want our loved ones to like what we like. Continue reading

Major Relationship Traps

What do we “catch” when we are building relationships with a person whom we so want to consider our soul mate? Probably, like our smaller brothers, for something tasty. But the tastes often do not match …

Trap # 1: I want it to be like mom and dad
How did I fall into this trap? From the perspective of a 10-year-old child with an idealized perception, the relationship between parents seemed to me the most correct. More truly, I precisely believed in it. She believed that when she grows up, I will have exactly the same thing as mom and dad: my husband and I will love each other, I will command, my husband will fulfill what I decide, we will solve everyday problems together, buy in a loan is necessary things, it will go fishing on weekends, and I will arrange gatherings with friends, we will give dinner services to relatives, we will go to sea every year and much more … Continue reading

The hidden motives of civil marriage

Unconsciously, we know what is true, real, lasting, sanctified and legitimized, and what is fake, temporary. And then what does all our talk about the notorious “passport stamp” mean? Although no one will tell you what is right for you. Let’s better look for hidden motives.

In our time, many varieties of marriage have arisen. To its traditional form, when a couple enters into an official union with registration in an appropriate institution and passport marks, marriage with a marriage contract, a civil marriage when a couple lives together, but without an official registration of relations, and the so-called guest marriage when partners live each on their territory, sometimes even in different cities, go to visit each other or take turns living with each other. Continue reading

Lovely scolding – quarrel rules no offense

How is a family quarrel (internal) different from an external quarrel? A family quarrel is a continuation of love, only by other means. And external conflicts have a different nature, most often material or related to the struggle for comfort.

Most of all, internal quarrels hurt us. Before talking about how to get away from undeserved grievances, we note: if a person’s moral values ​​and personal qualities are not affected by a quarrel, the conflict can be resolved with the least loss. This is one of the basic rules. There are others …

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Love and close relationships: male and female features
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Floriculture of love: how to care for relationships
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If separation is inevitable
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