even just time
“We cannot learn our partner to the end. But you can always get to know him even better. ”- Zach Brittle, Licensed Mental Health Consultant
Why are some spouses getting closer and others are parting?
This was told by psychologist and relationship expert Dr. John M. Gottman. Gotman spent over 40 years of research with thousands of couples. He is known worldwide for his work to ensure stability in marriage and to predict divorce. Moreover, in 2007, a specialist in psychotherapy called him “one of the 10 most influential therapists in the last quarter century.”
According to the psychologist, people who are more likely to enjoy family intimacy and be satisfied in marriage are those who build detailed “love cards”. Continue reading