How to recognize an abuser at the beginning of a relationship
Today you walk under the moon, timidly hold hands and make plans for a joint future. And when the flair of romance is replaced by a monotonous life, your beloved…

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Balance between work and personal life - striving for balance
To achieve heights in a career, for a quick descent to the top, you need an unusually large amount of strength, energy and, importantly, time. Unfortunately, there is only 24…

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What to do to prevent a family boat from breaking in everyday life
Each relationship goes through certain stages of its development. When it comes time to live together, on the one hand, it strengthens them, and on the other, it provides for…

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The hidden motives of civil marriage

Unconsciously, we know what is true, real, lasting, sanctified and legitimized, and what is fake, temporary. And then what does all our talk about the notorious “passport stamp” mean? Although no one will tell you what is right for you. Let’s better look for hidden motives.

In our time, many varieties of marriage have arisen. To its traditional form, when a couple enters into an official union with registration in an appropriate institution and passport marks, marriage with a marriage contract, a civil marriage when a couple lives together, but without an official registration of relations, and the so-called guest marriage when partners live each on their territory, sometimes even in different cities, go to visit each other or take turns living with each other. Continue reading

Fear of developing a relationship

In the old days, at the time of knights and brave warriors, great things were done for the sake of happiness to be with your beloved together. Young hearts challenged the wishes of relatives and the demands of society. For the sake of happiness, to be together renounced titles, wealth, inheritance and other privileges. In our time, to be together, to be husband and wife, is also a feat for many. But the feat is not in the struggle against society and its conventions, but in the struggle against oneself.

There is a stage in my work when a candidate passes a test interview. Among the many questions regarding the qualifications and professionalism of the candidate, there are also general questions aimed at determining life principles and seeing oneself in this world by this person. Continue reading

Avoiding guilt and overcoming conscience

Since the diapers of each of us have been accustomed to the fact that for each misconduct must be held accountable. Every extra word spoken can cause a storm of indignation, as well as be condemned. On the one hand, this is very good, because, inspiring guilt, we were instilled with control over our own behavior, showing by example what is “good” and what is “bad”. Only one problem – if you go too far with this technique, in the future you can get a person with a full complex of guilt, which he will experience even for the most minor misconduct. And if sometimes such a (guilt) feeling is necessary, then sometimes it can become a serious life obstacle. That is why you need to figure out for yourself how to get rid of guilt.
Guilt – feeling and remorse are devoid of meaning and meaning. These are feelings, experiences. Not thoughts. © Carlos Ruiz Safon.

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