In the old days, at the time of knights and brave warriors, great things were done for the sake of happiness to be with your beloved together. Young hearts challenged the wishes of relatives and the demands of society. For the sake of happiness, to be together renounced titles, wealth, inheritance and other privileges. In our time, to be together, to be husband and wife, is also a feat for many. But the feat is not in the struggle against society and its conventions, but in the struggle against oneself.
There is a stage in my work when a candidate passes a test interview. Among the many questions regarding the qualifications and professionalism of the candidate, there are also general questions aimed at determining life principles and seeing oneself in this world by this person. Continue reading
Building a happy and harmonious relationship with a loved one is one of the basic spiritual needs of each of us. However, the people who succeeded are always in the minority. The rest can only share a list of sad stories about unhappy love, disappointments and unjustified hopes. At the same time, the heroes of the novels succeed each other, and the scenery and script remain the same. Life seems to pass by, and the belief that a worthy chosen one meets on the way fades away every day. Many are sure that failures on the love front overtake them, because good people in society are practically extinct. This is actually not the case. Just letting “good” into our lives is prevented by deep psychological attitudes. What attracts the “wrong” partners to us, causes the effect of deja vu in relationships and how to break this series of unsuccessful novels, you will learn by reading this article.
The same relationship problems: what are the causes
It is sometimes difficult for all of us to build relationships. It is almost impossible to meet “that one” person without passing the tests. Some partners were given to us not for happiness, but for experience. It is noted that people who, coming out of destructive relations, draw conclusions, are more likely to have a happy future than those who regularly “dance on the rake.” Figuring this agricultural inventory at the heart of a painful relationship is not accidental, as is the choice of a partner who brings suffering. And all because initially in the concept of “love” we mean what it is by no means. In addition, erroneously artificially imposed criteria of true love are often flashed into the human subconscious, having nothing to do with a mature feeling. Continue reading
Each relationship goes through certain stages of its development. When it comes time to live together, on the one hand, it strengthens them, and on the other, it provides for the solution of certain difficulties. First of all, they are associated with the unification of two different worldviews and habits together.
I think you have repeatedly heard the phrase “Life kills relationships”, but is that so? Is it possible to consider the moment of “rubbing” as a murder of relations? How to keep love in everyday life, and how not to lose oneself, giving way to a partner, are the answers in our material.
Why life destroys relationships
To begin with, let’s think about what is “life” in general? In the understanding of most people, this is an activity aimed at satisfying their daily psychological and physiological needs. The key word here is “your own”, because everyone knows how best it will be for him, how he will be comfortable and under what conditions this comfort is achieved. Continue reading