The alien soul – darkness, in each family, and in each group of people united by something – their own laws. Wait, do not rush to regret or condemn. Try to figure out who the Persecutor is here, who is the Victim, who is the Savior … And who are you yourself. Which of them do you want or do not want to be?
Manipulation is a complex psychological device, the purpose of which is that a manipulator (a person who puts pressure) tries to finish his drink. Often, the work of a manipulator is based on trust in oneself, feelings, fears, experiences of other people. For all its complexity, it is found everywhere, both at home and at work, both with children and with parents. Continue reading
Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words … will ruin our relationship.
Have you ever put off discussing a difficult topic with your partner, because it will inevitably lead to screams and slamming the door? Have you ever said something in the middle of a conversation that unintentionally (or perhaps deliberately) angered your partner? Have you ever finished a conversation with a feeling of frustration, inaudibility, incomprehensibility? You are not alone; communication and conflict resolution is hard work. So severe that 40-50% of marriages end in divorce in the United States, according to the American Psychological Association. However, lack of communication is only part of a failed relationship. Sometimes the way you communicate (or not communicate) is a real cause of conflict. Continue reading
Haptophobia is one of the most obscure phobias for others. It means that such people are afraid of the touches of strangers. Holders of a phobia do not want to contact others, because they experience fear and panic attacks. Below we will understand what is called a fear of touch, what are its causes and possible methods of treatment.
Those suffering from such a phobia are afraid when the boundaries of their space are violated. Each person has his own concept of the distinction between personal and social. Haptophobes have a vague idea of this.
Since most people live in large cities, they cannot build barriers from other residents. Constant contact occurs in public transport, when visiting museums and shops. Close contact with other members of society is simply inevitable.
During the “penetration” of a person’s personal territory, which is afraid of the touch of strangers, uncontrollable feelings of disgust and fear appear. This is not squeamishness. Such people need the help of specialists to get rid of fear. If the phobia is not treated, then such a person can easily become isolated in himself, he will no longer be able to get out of the psycho-emotional state himself. Continue reading