tantrums and divorce
What do we “catch” when we are building relationships with a person whom we so want to consider our soul mate? Probably, like our smaller brothers, for something tasty. But the tastes often do not match …
Trap # 1: I want it to be like mom and dad
How did I fall into this trap? From the perspective of a 10-year-old child with an idealized perception, the relationship between parents seemed to me the most correct. More truly, I precisely believed in it. She believed that when she grows up, I will have exactly the same thing as mom and dad: my husband and I will love each other, I will command, my husband will fulfill what I decide, we will solve everyday problems together, buy in a loan is necessary things, it will go fishing on weekends, and I will arrange gatherings with friends, we will give dinner services to relatives, we will go to sea every year and much more … Continue reading
Probably, whole libraries of books have already been written about the relationship between men and women, hundreds and thousands of seminars have been devoted to this topic. And yet, in spite of this, I want to dare and offer my vision of creating harmonious relations. Where a woman plays a major role – a florist …
As many people know, in the Universe everything is so harmonious that it is just right to draw parallels between human life and Nature. She can show how it should be like no other, but we just need to learn to recognize these comparisons.
So, imagine that your relationship with a man is a flower. What it is in your imagination is not important. The main thing is how you will look after him. Continue reading
Haptophobia is one of the most obscure phobias for others. It means that such people are afraid of the touches of strangers. Holders of a phobia do not want to contact others, because they experience fear and panic attacks. Below we will understand what is called a fear of touch, what are its causes and possible methods of treatment.
Those suffering from such a phobia are afraid when the boundaries of their space are violated. Each person has his own concept of the distinction between personal and social. Haptophobes have a vague idea of this.
Since most people live in large cities, they cannot build barriers from other residents. Constant contact occurs in public transport, when visiting museums and shops. Close contact with other members of society is simply inevitable.
During the “penetration” of a person’s personal territory, which is afraid of the touch of strangers, uncontrollable feelings of disgust and fear appear. This is not squeamishness. Such people need the help of specialists to get rid of fear. If the phobia is not treated, then such a person can easily become isolated in himself, he will no longer be able to get out of the psycho-emotional state himself. Continue reading