4 exercises to get closer
We read a smart book, went to a seminar, learned something new - and I want to share this with a partner. And he strains and asks him not to…

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Major Relationship Traps
What do we “catch” when we are building relationships with a person whom we so want to consider our soul mate? Probably, like our smaller brothers, for something tasty. But…

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Overpriced self-esteem: is it necessary to fight it?
A huge number of various articles, dissertations and scientific works were devoted to the study of the problem of low human self-esteem - they studied it through the prism of…

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Why is it difficult to build relationships, rules for building a dialogue

Almost every day we run the risk of finding ourselves in a situation where we cannot really hear and understand our interlocutor, but he cannot hear and understand us. But what if this particular person was our fate? Simple rules of dialogue will help you not to lose it.

Every day and every hour, on weekends and weekdays, regardless of the weather, political situation and economic situation in the world, people, men and women meet and part, bringing and leaving in each other’s memory and souls either a wonderful feeling of unearthly magical joy, or a bleeding wound of doom and misery. Someone luckier – he becomes happy, someone less. But the question of the emergence, development, extinction and termination of relations between a man and a woman leads us to the question of the relationship of a person with a person without determining and highlighting his gender. Continue reading

Major Relationship Traps

What do we “catch” when we are building relationships with a person whom we so want to consider our soul mate? Probably, like our smaller brothers, for something tasty. But the tastes often do not match …

Trap # 1: I want it to be like mom and dad
How did I fall into this trap? From the perspective of a 10-year-old child with an idealized perception, the relationship between parents seemed to me the most correct. More truly, I precisely believed in it. She believed that when she grows up, I will have exactly the same thing as mom and dad: my husband and I will love each other, I will command, my husband will fulfill what I decide, we will solve everyday problems together, buy in a loan is necessary things, it will go fishing on weekends, and I will arrange gatherings with friends, we will give dinner services to relatives, we will go to sea every year and much more … Continue reading

Lovely scolding – quarrel rules no offense

How is a family quarrel (internal) different from an external quarrel? A family quarrel is a continuation of love, only by other means. And external conflicts have a different nature, most often material or related to the struggle for comfort.

Most of all, internal quarrels hurt us. Before talking about how to get away from undeserved grievances, we note: if a person’s moral values ​​and personal qualities are not affected by a quarrel, the conflict can be resolved with the least loss. This is one of the basic rules. There are others …

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Life after retirement: the cunning ideas of the older generation
In the daily cycle of worries and constant bustle, a large part of each person’s life passes. Some enjoy constant labor activity, while others look forward to retirement. For both…

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Love and relationships
Love and relationships are two different things. There are couples with a fiery and bright love - and with difficult, sick, undeveloped relationships. There are couples with beautifully built and…

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Married at all costs
Since childhood, almost every one of us has been taught that being alone is embarrassing. To be an “old maid” is the worst thing that can happen to a woman.…

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How to revive relationships and restore intimacy?
“Love lives for three years” - such an idea was put forward by the famous French writer. It would seem that long-term marriages are clear evidence of the opposite, but…

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