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What do we “catch” when we are building relationships with a person whom we so want to consider our soul mate? Probably, like our smaller brothers, for something tasty. But the tastes often do not match …
Trap # 1: I want it to be like mom and dad
How did I fall into this trap? From the perspective of a 10-year-old child with an idealized perception, the relationship between parents seemed to me the most correct. More truly, I precisely believed in it. She believed that when she grows up, I will have exactly the same thing as mom and dad: my husband and I will love each other, I will command, my husband will fulfill what I decide, we will solve everyday problems together, buy in a loan is necessary things, it will go fishing on weekends, and I will arrange gatherings with friends, we will give dinner services to relatives, we will go to sea every year and much more … Continue reading
Unconsciously, we know what is true, real, lasting, sanctified and legitimized, and what is fake, temporary. And then what does all our talk about the notorious “passport stamp” mean? Although no one will tell you what is right for you. Let’s better look for hidden motives.
In our time, many varieties of marriage have arisen. To its traditional form, when a couple enters into an official union with registration in an appropriate institution and passport marks, marriage with a marriage contract, a civil marriage when a couple lives together, but without an official registration of relations, and the so-called guest marriage when partners live each on their territory, sometimes even in different cities, go to visit each other or take turns living with each other. Continue reading
In the old days, at the time of knights and brave warriors, great things were done for the sake of happiness to be with your beloved together. Young hearts challenged the wishes of relatives and the demands of society. For the sake of happiness, to be together renounced titles, wealth, inheritance and other privileges. In our time, to be together, to be husband and wife, is also a feat for many. But the feat is not in the struggle against society and its conventions, but in the struggle against oneself.
There is a stage in my work when a candidate passes a test interview. Among the many questions regarding the qualifications and professionalism of the candidate, there are also general questions aimed at determining life principles and seeing oneself in this world by this person. Continue reading