Life after retirement: the cunning ideas of the older generation
In the daily cycle of worries and constant bustle, a large part of each person’s life passes. Some enjoy constant labor activity, while others look forward to retirement. For both…

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Haptophobia: symptoms and manifestation. What to do if there is a fear of touching?
Haptophobia is one of the most obscure phobias for others. It means that such people are afraid of the touches of strangers. Holders of a phobia do not want to…

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Gynophobia - fear of women: symptoms, treatment, ways to combat phobia
Gynophobia is an obsessive fear of women. Fear of women causes panic conditions, most often it occurs in men. Such fear is one of the most common phobias in modern…

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Seven signs of mature love

Mainly because we in vain believe in all the wrong signs of love. We in vain believe that true love is all about romance and beautiful gestures, about strong, passionate feelings that encourage you to do what you have never done before.

We believe that true love is not only a phenomenon, that it is indicated by a fixed set of attitudes and values. We believe that true love makes you want to spend every second next to your loved one, which makes you jealous and deeply afraid that one wrong step can lead to the loss of the object of such passion.

And when your story begins, you confuse passion with love. Do not think that love is something concrete.

If “True Love” were something concrete, then this would be the logical opposite of “Fake Love”.

There is no true love, because it is either love, no. This is either love, or passion, possessiveness, “stroking” your ego, or any other unhealthy relationship that is not marked by trust, respect and sincere bestowal. Continue reading

Love Cards: How to Develop Emotional Intimacy with a Partner

“We cannot learn our partner to the end. But you can always get to know him even better. ”- Zach Brittle, Licensed Mental Health Consultant

Why are some spouses getting closer and others are parting?

This was told by psychologist and relationship expert Dr. John M. Gottman. Gotman spent over 40 years of research with thousands of couples. He is known worldwide for his work to ensure stability in marriage and to predict divorce. Moreover, in 2007, a specialist in psychotherapy called him “one of the 10 most influential therapists in the last quarter century.”

According to the psychologist, people who are more likely to enjoy family intimacy and be satisfied in marriage are those who build detailed “love cards”. Continue reading

Love lives three years? Stages of relations and how to prolong them
After the release of Frederic Begbeder’s novel “Love lives for three years”, this phrase is used as truth, it has already been reflected in more than one work of art,…

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Is friendship between a man and a woman possible?
The psychology of friendship between men and women is the most mysterious question; for many years, psychologists have been trying to determine whether such friendship exists? Let us consider in…

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What to do to prevent a family boat from breaking in everyday life
Each relationship goes through certain stages of its development. When it comes time to live together, on the one hand, it strengthens them, and on the other, it provides for…

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Married at all costs
Since childhood, almost every one of us has been taught that being alone is embarrassing. To be an “old maid” is the worst thing that can happen to a woman.…

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