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Like any girl, getting married, I counted on a long and happy family life. I had expectations, illusions and much more. But these expectations were broken on everyday life. And after the birth of a child, we faced a serious crisis that lasted more than one year.
That’s what I want to tell you about. This is very personal, and for a long time I did not want to write about it. But at the same time, I understand that only an example inspires. Only a personal example and personal stories.
When our eldest son was born, we were on the verge of a divorce. We were not ready for such a load (the baby shouted almost around the clock, there were problems with hepatitis B, stomach and so on). Continue reading
Studies by ethologists have shown that the characteristics of male and female human behavior are not unique: many animals have the same differences.
Male monkeys have better expressed spatial abilities and are more aggressive, females tend to cooperate and care for their neighbors. A reasonable question arises: why do they need it? The answer is quite obvious: because they have different reproductive strategies.
The male seeks to impregnate as many females as possible, which means that he must move a lot and be able to defeat other males. The main share of care for the offspring falls on the female, which means that she should be caring, capable of sympathy and inclined to teachings. Continue reading
Love is currently one of the most common reasons for creating a family, but not the only one.
Families are created not only for love. There are completely random reasons – pregnancy. Or need a residence permit. Or age has come up. Or in revenge to a beloved or beloved. Or the girl wants to escape from her parents, who do not consider her an adult, do not give independence and are terrorizing … Where to escape? Getting married. See Why and Why People Create a Family Continue reading