Actual problems of self-realization among youth
If we consider the problems of youth’s self-realization not only from the individual’s side as the complexity of implementing an individual personality, but look at them in general as problems…

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Haptophobia: symptoms and manifestation. What to do if there is a fear of touching?
Haptophobia is one of the most obscure phobias for others. It means that such people are afraid of the touches of strangers. Holders of a phobia do not want to…

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The hidden motives of civil marriage
Unconsciously, we know what is true, real, lasting, sanctified and legitimized, and what is fake, temporary. And then what does all our talk about the notorious “passport stamp” mean? Although…

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Relationships Without Manipulation

The alien soul – darkness, in each family, and in each group of people united by something – their own laws. Wait, do not rush to regret or condemn. Try to figure out who the Persecutor is here, who is the Victim, who is the Savior … And who are you yourself. Which of them do you want or do not want to be?

Manipulation is a complex psychological device, the purpose of which is that a manipulator (a person who puts pressure) tries to finish his drink. Often, the work of a manipulator is based on trust in oneself, feelings, fears, experiences of other people. For all its complexity, it is found everywhere, both at home and at work, both with children and with parents. Continue reading

What is love

Love is an interested, caring and attentive attitude towards that and for the sake of the fact that we love or whom we love. You need to talk about love for a long time, you need to study the correct manifestations of love, and at the University I give students many tasks on this topic. But in short, love is selfless and joyful care.
This is an interested, caring and attentive attitude to a person, things or any business and events. If an adult, smart and responsible person loves, other requirements are added to love: love should not be blind, but sighted and smart, not only feeling, but also responsible behavior. Love without respect is short-lived and unstable, respect without love is cold and weak. Continue reading

Love and close relationships: male and female features

Studies by ethologists have shown that the characteristics of male and female human behavior are not unique: many animals have the same differences.

Male monkeys have better expressed spatial abilities and are more aggressive, females tend to cooperate and care for their neighbors. A reasonable question arises: why do they need it? The answer is quite obvious: because they have different reproductive strategies.

The male seeks to impregnate as many females as possible, which means that he must move a lot and be able to defeat other males. The main share of care for the offspring falls on the female, which means that she should be caring, capable of sympathy and inclined to teachings. Continue reading

How to influence people and successfully negotiate?
The psychology of persuasion is the demanded knowledge in all spheres of life. Conviction is not limited to winning a dispute or defending one’s point of view, persuasion skills are…

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Avoiding guilt and overcoming conscience
Since the diapers of each of us have been accustomed to the fact that for each misconduct must be held accountable. Every extra word spoken can cause a storm of…

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4 exercises to get closer
We read a smart book, went to a seminar, learned something new - and I want to share this with a partner. And he strains and asks him not to…

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Floriculture of love: how to care for relationships
Probably, whole libraries of books have already been written about the relationship between men and women, hundreds and thousands of seminars have been devoted to this topic. And yet, in…

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