present in relationships
Building a happy and harmonious relationship with a loved one is one of the basic spiritual needs of each of us. However, the people who succeeded are always in the minority. The rest can only share a list of sad stories about unhappy love, disappointments and unjustified hopes. At the same time, the heroes of the novels succeed each other, and the scenery and script remain the same. Life seems to pass by, and the belief that a worthy chosen one meets on the way fades away every day. Many are sure that failures on the love front overtake them, because good people in society are practically extinct. This is actually not the case. Just letting “good” into our lives is prevented by deep psychological attitudes. What attracts the “wrong” partners to us, causes the effect of deja vu in relationships and how to break this series of unsuccessful novels, you will learn by reading this article.
The same relationship problems: what are the causes
It is sometimes difficult for all of us to build relationships. It is almost impossible to meet “that one” person without passing the tests. Some partners were given to us not for happiness, but for experience. It is noted that people who, coming out of destructive relations, draw conclusions, are more likely to have a happy future than those who regularly “dance on the rake.” Figuring this agricultural inventory at the heart of a painful relationship is not accidental, as is the choice of a partner who brings suffering. And all because initially in the concept of “love” we mean what it is by no means. In addition, erroneously artificially imposed criteria of true love are often flashed into the human subconscious, having nothing to do with a mature feeling. Continue reading